Quenching the Spirit: Be Joyful Always - 1st Thessalonians

Finding Joy Through the Holy Spirit: Understanding God's Will for Constant Rejoicing

Many Christians struggle with three seemingly simple but challenging commands from Scripture: rejoice ALWAYS, pray CONTINUALLY, and give thanks in ALL circumstances. While these directives can feel overwhelming, understanding God's provision through the Holy Spirit is what allows them to be attainable for us.

The Challenge of Constant Rejoicing and Prayer

Even seasoned Christians often find it difficult to maintain constant prayer and rejoicing. The command to "pray continually" can feel particularly daunting - how can we keep God at the forefront of our minds at all times? The key lies not in mechanical change through sheer willpower, but in organic transformation through the Holy Spirit.

How Does the Holy Spirit Enable Rejoicing?

The Holy Spirit is characterized by:

1. Being a spirit of rejoicing

2. Constantly praying and interceding

3. Giving thanks in all circumstances

When we receive Christ, we receive this Spirit who naturally tends toward joy, prayer, and thanksgiving. Rather than striving through our own effort, we can tap into the Spirit's power.

What Prevents Us from Experiencing Constant Joy?

Several factors can "quench" the Spirit's work in our lives:

1. Anxiety and fear

2. Suffering and trials

3. Unresolved sin

4. Distractions and idols

The solution isn't to try harder but to lean into the Spirit when facing these challenges. Let anxiety drive you to prayer rather than away from God. Allow suffering to deepen your dependence on Him.

How Can We Stay Connected to the Spirit?

To maintain connection with the Spirit:

1. Focus on what the Spirit is rejoicing about in your life

2. Join in the Spirit's prayers of intercession

3. Give thanks alongside the Spirit

4. Keep in step with the Spirit's leading

Life Application

This week, ask yourself these questions:

1. What do you think the Holy Spirit is rejoicing about in your life right now?

2. What is the Spirit praying for on your behalf?

3. What is the Spirit giving thanks for in your circumstances?

Challenge: Instead of trying to manufacture joy and prayer through willpower, practice "keeping in step with the Spirit." When you identify what the Spirit is doing, join in - rejoice when He rejoices, pray what He's praying, give thanks for what He's thankful for.

Remember: You are who you spend time with. The more you lean into fellowship with the Holy Spirit, the more His characteristics of joy, prayer, and thanksgiving will naturally flow through your life.

Resurrection Sunday: Don't Settle for a Secondary Salvation!

Finding True Freedom: Looking Beyond Our Immediate Needs

Life has a way of creating gaps and leaving us longing for things we think will make everything better. Whether it's acceptance, financial security, better relationships, relief from struggles, or something as simple as the right pair of shoes, we often believe we know exactly what we need to fix our problems.

When What We Think We Need Isn't What We Really Need

Just like the religious leaders and crowds at Jesus' crucifixion, we can become so focused on what we think we need that we miss the bigger picture. The religious experts were looking for a conquering king to overthrow Rome, but they missed countless prophecies showing the Messiah would come to suffer and save in a much deeper way. Read through Psalm 22 and notice all the ways this points us to Jesus!

Why Do We Miss What's Most Important?

We often sacrifice long-term good for short-term gain. Like the religious leaders who were experts in scripture yet missed its true meaning, we can become blinded by our immediate desires and perceived needs. We look for a “secondary salvation” to be saved from something that isn’t the true issue.

Finding Freedom Through Proper Focus

True freedom comes when we shift our focus from our temporary problems to our relationship with Jesus. Whether dealing with:

1. Relationship struggles

2. Financial difficulties

3. Health issues

4. Future uncertainties

The key is remembering that these are temporary concerns compared to our eternal relationship with God.

Jesus' Promise About Our Needs

In Matthew 6:33, Jesus says "Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." When we prioritize our relationship with God, He promises to take care of our other needs.

Life Application

This week, take your biggest current need or concern and bring it before Jesus with this challenge:

1. Ask Jesus "What do you think my greatest need is right now?"

2. Give Him time to answer - don't rush to fill in the blank

3. Discuss with Christian friends and seek their prayer support

4. Keep asking until you gain His perspective on your situation

Questions to reflect on:

1. What do I spend the most time worrying about or praying for?

2. Could this concern be distracting me from a deeper spiritual need?

3. How might my perspective change if I truly trusted God to handle my temporary problems

4. What steps can I take to seek God's kingdom first this week?

You Asked For It: Can (or Should) We Speak With The Dead?

What Does the Bible Say About Mediums and Consulting the Dead?

The desire to communicate with loved ones who have passed away is deeply human. Many of us would give anything for one more conversation with someone we've lost. But what does the Bible say about attempting to communicate with the dead through mediums or other spiritual practices?

God's Clear Stance on Consulting Mediums

Scripture is unambiguous about God's position on consulting mediums and spiritists. In Deuteronomy 18:9-14, these practices are called "detestable" to the Lord. God specifically forbids His people from engaging in divination, sorcery, interpreting omens, witchcraft, casting spells, or consulting the dead.

Why Does God Prohibit These Practices?

According to Leviticus 19:31, consulting mediums and spiritists defiles us. These practices represent spiritual shortcuts that bypass God's intended way of communication with Him. Like most sins, they are attempts to get what we want outside of God's will and timing.

The Reality of the Spiritual World

While there is indeed a spiritual realm "thinly veiled" from our physical world, God has established proper channels for spiritual communication. The enemy can use signs and wonders to deceive people, as warned in 2 Thessalonians 2:9-10 and Mark 13:22.

The Example of King Saul

1 Samuel 28 provides a sobering example of what happens when we desperately seek spiritual answers outside of God's established ways. After the prophet Samuel's death, King Saul found himself terrified and facing a massive Philistine army. When God wouldn't answer him through proper channels, Saul made the tragic choice to consult a medium at Endor – the very practice he had previously banned from Israel.

This decision reveals several warning signs:

• Desperation leading to compromise

• Choosing fear over faith

• Attempting to bypass God's silence

• Returning to sins we once rejected

The outcome was disastrous. Instead of finding comfort, Saul received news of his impending defeat and death. His story serves as a powerful reminder that disobeying God's clear commands about mediums, even in desperate circumstances, leads to darkness rather than light.

How Should We Hear from God?

Instead of seeking shortcuts through mediums or other practices, God wants us to:

1. Read and study His Word consistently

2. Develop a disciplined prayer life

3. Engage in Christian community

4. Listen for His "whisper" through these spiritual disciplines

Life Application

This week, consider these questions and challenges:

1. What spiritual shortcuts am I tempted to take instead of pursuing God's way?

2. Am I developing the spiritual disciplines needed to hear God's voice?

3. How can I be a conduit of God's truth to others seeking spiritual connection?

Challenge: Commit to spending 15 minutes each day this week in quiet Bible reading and prayer, eliminating distractions to better hear God's whisper.

Remember, while the desire to connect with loved ones who have passed is natural, God has given us His Spirit and His Word as our primary means of spiritual guidance and comfort.

You Asked For It: Once Saved Always Saved?

Can You Lose Your Salvation? Understanding God's Love and Grace

For centuries, Christians have debated whether it's possible to lose your salvation. This challenging question stems from some seemingly scary verses in the Bible and touches on our deepest fears about our relationship with God.

What Does Salvation Really Mean?

Salvation is fundamentally about what God does, not what we do. Like someone trapped in a burning building who needs rescue, we cannot save ourselves from our spiritual condition. Jesus Christ came to rescue us from the consequences of our sin.

Two Important States of Salvation

According to Hebrews 10:14, believers exist in two simultaneous states:

1. Made perfect forever through Christ's sacrifice

2. Being made holy through an ongoing process

This creates an interesting tension - we are both completely saved and being transformed at the same time.

Is Faith Enough for Salvation?

While intellectual belief in God is important, James 2:19 reminds us that even demons believe in God. True saving faith requires more than just mental acknowledgment - it requires action and relationship.

What God Really Wants: Love and Relationship

The heart of salvation isn't about rules or religious duties - it's about love. Deuteronomy 6:5 reveals God's unchanging desire: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength."

Can Sin Cause Us to Lose Salvation?

Rather than asking if we can lose salvation like a possession, we should consider:

1. Can we fall out of love with God?

2. Can sin harden our hearts against God?

3. Are we holding firmly to our original conviction about needing a Savior?

Life Application

This week, focus on these key questions:

1. Are you treating salvation as a relationship with God or just a ticket to heaven?

2. What is your "original conviction" about needing Jesus as your Savior?

3. How can you demonstrate your love for God in practical ways?

Challenge: Each day this week, encourage another believer in their faith walk. Remember that today is always "today" - don't wait to start encouraging others.

Remember: Salvation is more about God's faithful love than our perfect performance. Keep your eyes on Jesus and hold firmly to your conviction that He alone is your Savior.

You Asked For It: Good Intention or Holy Intentions?

Understanding God's Justice and Love: Making Sense of Violence in the Bible

When reading the Bible, particularly the Old Testament, many struggle with passages where God commands the destruction of entire peoples. This challenging topic requires us to approach it with humility and an open mind to understand God's perspective.

The Difficult Command

In 1 Samuel 15:3 and Deuteronomy 20:16-17, God commands the complete destruction of certain peoples, including men, women, children, and animals. This seems to contradict our understanding of a loving God who gives life rather than takes it.

Why Would a Loving God Command Such Actions?

God's motivation was not religious persecution, but rather protection of His people from corrupting influences. These nations practiced horrific customs, including child sacrifice to false gods like Molech, where infants were placed on heated metal altars to die as acts of worship.

Understanding God's Holy Intentions vs. Our Good Intentions

While we may have good intentions in questioning these commands, God operates with holy intentions - seeing the full picture of how sin spreads and destroys. Like a surgeon removing diseased tissue to save a life, God sometimes must take severe action to prevent greater suffering and death.

The Consequences of Disobedience

When the Israelites failed to fully carry out God's commands, they were influenced by these nations' practices, leading to:

1. Adoption of child sacrifice

2. Worship of false gods

3. Widespread suffering and death

4. Eventually their own exile and judgment

God's Consistent Character

The same God who commanded judgment also:

1. Offered grace to anyone who would turn to Him (like Rahab)

2. Provided laws protecting foreigners who chose to follow Him

3. Ultimately sent Jesus as an innocent sacrifice to save humanity

Life Application

Consider these questions this week:

1. Where do I need to trust God's wisdom even when I don't fully understand His ways?

2. Am I humble enough to acknowledge that God's perspective is greater than mine?

3. How can I better appreciate both God's justice and mercy in my daily life?

Challenge: This week, practice surrendering your judgment in situations where you don't understand God's ways. Instead of questioning His methods, pray for understanding and trust in His perfect wisdom and love.

You Asked For: Are There Different Severities of Sin?

Understanding God's Perspective on Sin and Life

Life through Jesus offers something far greater than what our old life of sin and death could provide. While we may sometimes feel pulled back toward old habits and desires, they ultimately leave us empty and unfulfilled compared to the joy and peace found in Christ.

Can God Create a Rock So Big He Can't Lift It?

This question attempts to create a paradox to disprove God's unlimited nature. However, the question itself is flawed because it tries to put limits on a limitless God. Scripture tells us that "with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26) and that His understanding has no limits (Psalm 147:5).

To illustrate the difference between a million and a billion, we talked about in terms we might understand. A million seconds works out to a little over 11 days. A billion seconds is….over 30 years! And a trillion seconds? It would take 1,000 generations to experience 1 trillion seconds. Our human minds struggle to comprehend true infinity - whether in terms of space, time, or power. The vastness of the universe, with its billions of galaxies, gives us just a glimpse of God's unlimited nature. He exists outside of our limited understanding of time and space. This perspective on God set’s up our next question.

Are There Different Levels of Sin?

From our human perspective, we often try to categorize sins as "worse" or "better." However, God's perspective is different. Romans 6:23 tells us "the wages of sin is death" - all sin leads to death and separation from God. While there may be different earthly consequences for various sins, God's primary concern is whether we are spiritually dead in sin or alive in Christ.

How Do We Receive New Life?

The path to life comes through:

1. Faith in Jesus Christ

2. Believing in His death and resurrection

3. Accepting His gift of righteousness

4. Being justified through faith

5. Experiencing baptism as a symbol of dying to sin and rising to new life

Life Application

This week, instead of comparing sins or trying to justify behavior, focus on this core question: Are you living in death or in life? Consider:

1. Do you truly believe Jesus loves you and offers new life?

2. Are you still finding satisfaction in things that lead to death?

3. What areas of your life need to be surrendered to experience more of Christ's life?

4. How can you pursue things that lead to life rather than death?

The challenge is to stop playing the comparison game with sin and instead embrace the new life Jesus offers - a life that finds no satisfaction in the empty promises of sin but finds complete fulfillment in Christ. We spent a lot of time in Romans this week. It’s so full of this language and helps us understand how we move from dead to sin to alive in Christ. Take some time this week to read Romans.

You Asked For It: How Can God Be Loving When Bad Things Happen?

Introduction:

With a new year comes a new series! For the next few weeks, we’ll be in a series called “You asked for it” where we tackle some tough questions submitted by you all. At Hope Summit, we don’t shy away from the tough questions. Your mess is welcome here, and we feel it’s part of our mission to wade through the mess with you. So this week we dive right it. How can God be loving when bad things happen? When facing severe injustice or suffering, many people struggle with reconciling God's love with their painful circumstances. This week we look at how four biblical figures dealt with injustice while maintaining their faith.

Four Biblical Examples of Facing Injustice

David's Experience

Despite being anointed as future king, David faced persecution from King Saul and had to flee for his life. In Psalm 13, he cried out asking how long God would forget him, yet ultimately declared his trust in God's unfailing love. In 1st Samuel 24, we read about a time when David had the opportunity to kill King Saul, who had relentlessly been pursuing David, seeking to take his own life. Despite this opportunity we could have hardly faulted him for taking, we see he instead chose to trust in God, his goodness, and his timing. Even if he didn’t feel it at the moment, he understood God’s love involved a bigger picture he couldn’t fully comprehend. 

Habakkuk's Story

As a prophet facing rejection and persecution, Habakkuk questioned God about injustice. In chapter 1, he cries out: "How long, Lord, must I call for help, but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, 'Violence!' but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrongdoing? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds.” Like Habakkuk, we can take our raw questions to God. He’s not afraid of what you have to say. But what’s important is that Habakkuk maintained dialogue with God even while questioning Him. God responded by teaching him to live by faith and trust in His perfect timing.

Elijah's Trial

After a great victory against the prophets of Baal, Elijah had to run for his life from Queen Jezebel. Even strong believers can face seasons of doubt and even depression. God often meets us in our weakness. In Elijah’s despair, God spoke to him not through dramatic displays but through a whisper, providing him with rest and a gentle restoration. 

Paul's Persecution

Despite faithfully planting churches, Paul faced severe persecution including being stoned and left for dead. Despite facing beatings, imprisonment, and constant opposition, Paul maintained an eternal perspective. In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 he writes that "our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all." He maintained his faith and taught about God's perfect righteousness.

Understanding God's Perfect Love

God's love is perfect and complete, extending to both the righteous and unrighteous. This can be hard for us to understand since human love is inherently biased and imperfect. God allows both sun and rain to fall on everyone equally, demonstrating His perfect justice and love.

Why Does God Allow Suffering?

The difficult truth is that we live in a broken world where no one is truly righteous except Jesus Christ. The book of Job addresses the issues of why God allows suffering. In fact, that's one of the key points of the book - when Job demands answers from God about his suffering, God responds not with a philosophical explanation but with questions about His sovereignty and wisdom. God allows suffering while walking alongside us through it, using these circumstances to demonstrate His power, sovereignty and wisdom, through our faith, trust, and perseverance in him.

Life Application

Consider these questions:

1. What injustice or pain are you currently facing?

2. How can you trust God's perfect love even when circumstances are difficult?

3. Where do you see opportunities to be God's hands and feet in responding to suffering?

This week's challenge: Instead of praying for God to remove difficulties, ask Him to strengthen you through them and use you to demonstrate His love to others who are suffering. Look for practical ways to show up and serve in places where people question God's goodness. God's love is perfect and His plan is perfect, even when we don't understand it. Our role is to trust Him and be His representatives of love in a broken world. Remember, one of the ways that we can let people know God really is loving is by showing up and representing him, even in the really tough stuff of life.

Experiencing God's Presence: A Christmas Eve Reflection

Introduction

In a world filled with distractions and uncertainties, finding moments of divine connection can be challenging. This Christmas Eve, we explore the profound significance of God's presence in our lives, drawing from the timeless story of Jesus' birth. This reflection aims to help you understand and experience the presence of God more deeply, not just during the holiday season but throughout your life.

The Christmas Story

The story of Jesus' birth is a cornerstone of Christian faith. Listening to this story can evoke a sense of wonder and reverence. The birth of Jesus marked the beginning of God's renewed interaction with humanity after a long period of silence. This event was heralded by angels and witnessed by humble shepherds, symbolizing the accessibility of God's presence to all.

Seeking God's Presence - Moments of Divine Silence

Many of us have experienced times when it feels like God is silent or distant. These moments can be challenging, but they also remind us of the importance of seeking God's presence actively. Just as the shepherds on the hillside experienced a divine encounter, we too can find moments of glory in our lives.

The Promise of God's Presence

God's greatest gift to us is not material blessings but His presence. Jesus, called Emmanuel, meaning "God with us," signifies that God desires to be with us, to walk with us, and to understand our human experiences. This divine presence is accessible to us consistently, even when it feels distant.

The True Joy of Heaven - What Do We Want from Heaven?

Heaven is often described in terms of its promises—streets of gold, no more tears, eternal joy. However, the true essence of heaven is the presence of God. Earthly desires and needs will fade, but the deep spiritual connection with our Creator will fulfill us in ways beyond our current understanding.

The Reflection of God's Presence

Our current experience of God's presence is like seeing a reflection in a mirror—partial and imperfect. However, there will come a day when we will see God face to face, fully and completely. This anticipation should inspire us to seek and cherish God's presence now.

Life Application - Embracing God's Presence Daily

To experience God's presence more fully, we must intentionally seek Him in our daily lives. This can be through prayer, reading the Bible, worship, and fellowship with other believers. These practices help us tune into God's voice and recognize His presence in our lives.

Questions for Reflection

1. How often do I take time to listen to God's word rather than just read it?

2. In what ways have I experienced moments of divine silence, and how did I respond?

3. What do I truly desire from my relationship with God—His gifts or His presence?

4. How can I cultivate a deeper awareness of God's presence in my daily life?

A Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to set aside specific times to seek God's presence intentionally. Whether it's through listening to an audio Bible, spending quiet moments in prayer, or joining a small group, make a conscious effort to connect with God. Reflect on the ways He reveals Himself to you and share these experiences with others to encourage and uplift one another.

Conclusion

The presence of God is a gift that surpasses all earthly desires. As we celebrate the birth of Jesus, let us remember that God's greatest gift to us is Himself. By seeking His presence daily, we can experience the true joy and peace that come from knowing and being known by our Creator. May this Christmas season be a time of renewed connection with God and a deeper understanding of His love for us. Merry Christmas!

Presents or Presence: Week 2 - Security

Finding True Security in God's Presence

As we navigate the holiday season, with all its joys and challenges, it's essential to remember the promise Jesus made to us: He came to give us life, and life abundantly. This abundant life is full of both good and tough times, twists, and turns. Today, continuing in our theme of “Presents or Presence” we explore how we can find true security in God's presence, especially during uncertain times.

The Desire for Security

We all have an innate desire to feel secure about our future. This longing becomes even more pronounced during challenging times. Reflecting on personal experiences highlights our deep need to know that everything will be okay. This desire for security is a fundamental part of our human experience. 

God's Promises to Us

Jeremiah 29:11 - A Promise of Hope

One of the most cherished promises in the Bible is found in Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future." These words offer immense comfort for many, assuring us that God has good plans for us, even when we face difficulties. 

The Full Blessing of Jeremiah 29:11-14

However, the true blessing of this promise is found when we read beyond verse 11. Verses 12-14 reveal that our security is found in seeking God's presence: "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you, declares the Lord." Our true security lies in our relationship with God and His presence in our lives. Pastor Jeff reminded us of the context in which the promise of verse 11 was given. 

Heroes of Faith and Their Security in God

David's Trust in God's Presence

David, despite being pursued and facing numerous challenges, found his security in God's presence. In Psalm 16:11, he says, "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand." David's trust in God as his refuge and fortress is evident throughout the Psalms.

Isaiah's Steadfast Mind

Isaiah, who prophesied during a time of impending doom, found peace in trusting God. Isaiah 26:3-4 states, "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord himself, is the Rock eternal." Isaiah's security came from his unwavering trust in God.

Jeremiah's Hope in God's Faithfulness

Jeremiah, known as the weeping prophet, witnessed the destruction and exile of his people. Yet, in Lamentations 3:22-26, he declares, "Because of the Lord's great love, we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him." Jeremiah's hope and security were rooted in God's faithfulness.

Modern-Day Idols and False Security

In today's world, we often seek security in temporary things like money, relationships, or entertainment. These modern-day idols can never provide the true security that only God can offer. Isaiah 41:22-23 mocks the idols, highlighting their inability to predict the future or provide real security.

The Futility of Wealth

Psalm 49:12-19 reminds us that wealth is temporary and cannot provide lasting security. True security comes from trusting in God, who will redeem us and take us to Himself.

Life Application

Seeking God's Presence

To find true security, we must seek God's presence with all our hearts. This involves a committed prayer life, regular Bible study, and fellowship with other believers. When we prioritize our relationship with God, we experience the peace and security that only His presence can provide.

Questions for Reflection

1. Where do you currently seek security in your life?

2. How can you prioritize seeking God's presence this week?

3. What steps can you take to deepen your prayer life and Bible study?

Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to seek God's presence intentionally. Spend time in prayer, read your Bible, and connect with fellow believers. As you do, trust that God will provide the security and peace you need, regardless of your circumstances.

Conclusion

True security is found not in the temporary things of this world but in the eternal presence of God. As we navigate life's challenges, let's remember to seek Him with all our hearts, trusting in His promises and finding peace in His presence. You're going to be okay, Church, because even if your circumstances aren't okay, God's presence ensures that you are. God loves us even in the midst of our messy lives, and wants to share life together! 

The Talk - 1st Thessalonians 4:3-8

Introduction

In today's message, we explored the importance of glorifying God in every aspect of our lives, including our sexual conduct. We delved into the often-avoided topic of sexual immorality, understanding its implications and how it affects our relationship with God and others.

Addressing the Elephant in the Room: Sexual Immorality

Why Talk About Sex in Church?

Sex is a topic that many prefer to avoid, yet it is crucial to discuss it within the church because God created it and has specific guidelines for its use. The sermon referenced 1 Thessalonians 4, where Paul dedicates several verses to sexual immorality, emphasizing its importance. Paul was a list guy, often giving us lists of things to do that would lead to pleasing God, or things to avoid. Sexual Immorality was always on that list, often near the very beginning. It’s clearly something important we need to understand.

The Cultural Context of Sexual Immorality

Paul's letters often include lists of behaviors that please or displease God. Interestingly, in 1 Thessalonians, he focuses solely on sexual immorality. This focus is likely due to the prevalent sexual practices in Roman and Greco cities, which were far from God's design. The sermon highlighted that our modern culture shares many similarities with these ancient societies, making Paul's message highly relevant for us. 

Understanding Moral Sexuality- What is Moral Sexuality?

If we are to avoid sexual immorality, a great starting point is to understand what God considers moral sexuality. We turned to Genesis 2, where God created man and woman to be united as one flesh. This oneness is a deep, intimate connection meant to last a lifetime. Jesus and Paul also emphasized this unity, underscoring that sex is more than a physical act; it is a spiritual and emotional bond. so there's a bigger picture here behind this understanding that we have of sex beyond just a physical encounter where two individuals get some pleasure. When God created us, it was meant for something much deeper than just a moment. There's a oneness, a fullness that happens, a connection, an intimacy that is meant to be a connection that lasts longer than just a moment. And what God has done is he has built things to last upon this relationship. What God first did was he built a oneness between a man and his wife that would then grow into the fullness of children, which would then grow into a family. And upon that foundation, upon the family, he would build things like communities. He would build things like the community of the church. And so there's a reason when Jesus says, what God has fused together, what God has joined together, let no one separate. Because he has built so much to be on this foundation.

The Impact of Sexual Immorality

Sexual immorality disrupts this God-designed unity, leading to broken relationships and communities. The bible stresses that any sexual activity outside the confines of marriage between a man and a woman is considered immoral. This includes adultery, pornography, and other forms of sexual sin.

How Does Sexual Sin Affect Others?

Sexual sin is unique because it often involves and harms others. Whether it's through adultery, pornography, or other forms of sexual immorality, these actions pull others away from God and exploit their vulnerabilities.

The Enemy's Tactics: Lies and Accusations

The enemy uses sexual sin to lie to us and then accuse us, leading to guilt and shame. However we are reminded that Jesus has already defeated sin on the cross. We are called to live in freedom, not in shame. 1st John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 

Life Application

How Can We Live a Holy Life?

Living a holy life involves aligning our actions with God's will, especially in our sexual conduct. Sanctification is the process of becoming more like Christ, its the method by which God cleanses us, and it requires us to avoid sexual immorality and seek accountability.

Questions for Reflection

1. Who are you glorifying in your daily life?

2. Are there areas in your life where you seek approval from others instead of God?

3. How can you align your sexual conduct with God's design for moral sexuality?

4. Are you willing to seek accountability and support to overcome sexual sin?

A Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to examine your motives and actions. Are you glorifying God in all areas of your life, including your sexual conduct? Seek accountability and support if you struggle with sexual sin. Remember, you are loved, and God's grace is sufficient to help you overcome any sin. Your mess is welcome here, and we are here to talk if that’s what you need!