Acts 18: When Others Reject The Gospel

Finding Peace When Others Reject the Gospel

Have you ever tried to share your faith with someone who just wasn't interested? Perhaps you've experienced the heartbreak of watching a loved one reject the message of Jesus despite your best efforts. This painful situation raises an important question: When should we continue sharing, and when should we walk away?

When Sharing the Gospel Becomes Difficult

In Acts 18, we find the Apostle Paul facing this exact dilemma. After arriving in Corinth and working as a tentmaker with Aquila and Priscilla, Paul began devoting himself fully to preaching when Silas and Timothy arrived from Macedonia.

"When Silas and Timothy came from Macedonia, Paul devoted himself exclusively to preaching, testifying to the Jews that Jesus was the Messiah. But when they opposed Paul, they became abusive. He shook out his clothes in protest and said to them, 'Your blood be on your own heads. I am innocent of it. From now on I will go to the Gentiles.'" (Acts 18:5-6)

This moment represents a turning point. Paul had been faithfully sharing the gospel with his fellow Jews, using Scripture to show how Jesus fulfilled the prophecies about the Messiah. He pointed to approximately 300 different Old Testament passages that pointed to Jesus, including:

1. Jesus being a descendant of King David (2 Samuel)

2. Coming from the tribe of Judah (Genesis)

3. Arriving before the second destruction of the temple (Daniel)

4. His suffering, death, and resurrection (Isaiah)

Despite this evidence, many rejected his message and became hostile toward him.

Why Do We Keep Trying When People Reject the Gospel?

What drives us to continue sharing our faith even when faced with rejection? For Paul, there were several motivations:

1. A Sense of Responsibility

In Ezekiel 33:8-9, God says:

"When I say to the wicked, 'You wicked person, you will surely die,' and you do not speak to dissuade them from their ways, that wicked person will die for their sin, but I will hold you accountable for their blood. But if you do warn the wicked person to turn from their ways and they do not do so, they will die for their sin, though you yourself will be saved."

Paul felt this responsibility deeply. He knew the truth about salvation through Jesus and couldn't bear the thought of people perishing without hearing it.

2. Love for His People

Romans 10:1 reveals Paul's heart: "Brothers and sisters, my heart's desire and prayer to God for the Israelites is that they may be saved."

Like Jesus who wept over Jerusalem (Matthew 23:37), Paul had a deep love for his fellow Jews. This love drove him to continue sharing despite the risk of rejection and even physical harm.

When Is It Time to Walk Away?

Looking at Paul's pattern throughout Acts, we find that his decision to move on wasn't based on a specific timeframe but on the condition of people's hearts.

In Acts 19:8-9, we see this pattern clearly: "Paul entered the synagogue and spoke boldly there for three months, arguing persuasively about the kingdom of God. But some of them became obstinate; they refused to believe and publicly maligned the Way. So Paul left them."

The turning point came when people:

1. Became obstinate in their hearts

2. Refused to believe

3. Publicly maligned the gospel

When hearts hardened to this degree, Paul would redirect his efforts toward those who were more receptive.

The Wisdom of Protecting What Is Sacred

Jesus taught in Matthew 7:6, "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces."

This isn't about labeling people as animals but about protecting what is precious. Just as you wouldn't give something valuable to someone who doesn't recognize its worth, there comes a point when continuing to share the gospel with someone who consistently rejects and disrespects it becomes unwise.

The gospel is precious—it's the most beautiful message we have to share. When someone repeatedly treats it with contempt, it may be time to direct our efforts elsewhere.

What Happens When We Redirect Our Efforts?

Interestingly, whenever Paul redirected his efforts, revival followed:

"Then Paul left the synagogue and went next door to the house of Titius Justus, a worshiper of God. Crispus, the synagogue leader, and his entire household believed in the Lord; and many of the Corinthians who heard Paul believed and were baptized." (Acts 18:7-8)

By focusing on those whose hearts were open, Paul saw tremendous fruit. In Ephesus, his redirection led to a two-year ministry where "all the Jews and Greeks who lived in the province of Asia heard the word of the Lord" (Acts 19:10).

How Should We Approach Those Who Reject the Gospel?

1. Never give up hope - We continue to believe God can do anything, including softening the hardest heart.

2. Don't push them away - Maintain loving relationships even when they reject your message.

3. Don't judge them - Remember Jesus' warning about judging others.

4. Don't become "the ugly Christian" - Treat people with respect and love, even when they disagree.

5. Recognize you're not their savior - Only Jesus can save them; you're just the messenger.

6. Trust God's timing - Everyone's journey to faith is different.

Life Application

This week, I challenge you to:

1. Evaluate your approach: Are you continuing to push the gospel on someone who has clearly shown they're not receptive? Consider whether it might be time to step back while maintaining a loving relationship.

2. Look for open doors: Who in your life might be more receptive to hearing about Jesus? Instead of focusing all your energy on those who reject your message, redirect some effort toward those who might be waiting for someone to share with them.

3. Pray for wisdom: Ask God to show you when to speak and when to be silent, when to persist and when to redirect.

4. Trust God with your loved ones: If you have family members who reject the gospel, release the burden of being their savior. Continue to love them, pray for them, and trust that Jesus is still knocking on their door.

Ask yourself:

1. Am I treating the gospel as something precious when I share it?

2. Have I been trying to be someone's savior instead of trusting God with their salvation?

3. Who in my life might be more receptive to hearing about Jesus that I've been overlooking

4. How can I maintain loving relationships with those who reject my message?

Remember, we never give up on people because we never stop believing that God can do anything. But sometimes, the most loving thing we can do is to respect their choice while continuing to pray that God will work in their hearts in His perfect timing.

2 Thessalonians 3: A Difficult But Healthy Boundry

When Church Discipline Becomes Necessary: Protecting the Fellowship of Believers

The church is meant to be a place of joy, peace, and love—a community where people can experience the transformative power of Christ. But what happens when someone within that community becomes disruptive or refuses to turn from harmful behaviors? While it's uncomfortable to discuss, the Bible provides clear guidance on how to handle these situations.

What Does the Bible Say About Church Discipline?

In 2 Thessalonians 3:14-15, Paul gives specific instructions: "Take special note of anyone who does not obey our instruction in this letter. Do not associate with them in order that they may feel ashamed. Yet do not regard them as an enemy, but warn them as you would a fellow believer."

This passage isn't about shaming people and walking away. It's about creating temporary distance with a purpose—helping the person recognize their behavior and return to healthy fellowship.

Who Is Paul Talking About?

Earlier in 2 Thessalonians 3:6, Paul clarifies: "In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers and sisters, to keep away from every believer who is idle and disruptive and does not live according to the teaching you receive from us."

He further explains in verse 11: "We hear that some among you are idle and disruptive. They are not busy; they are busybodies."

Paul is addressing believers who are:

1. Deliberately disruptive

2. Rebellious against authority

3. Making mountains out of molehills

4. Constantly getting into others' business

What's the Purpose of Church Discipline?

The goal isn't punishment—it's restoration. When someone experiences separation from the fellowship of believers, they often begin to miss what makes church special: the community, encouragement, and support.

Think of it like a young man returning from a wonderful week at Christian camp. At camp, he experienced joy, peace, and encouragement. Going back to environments where people tear each other down made him realize how special the Christian community was.

Church discipline works on this principle. When someone is temporarily separated from fellowship, they may realize what they're missing and choose to return.

How Should We Approach Someone in Sin?

Jesus gave us a clear process in Matthew 18:15-17:

1. Go to them privately first: "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you."

2. If they won't listen, bring one or two others: "Take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.'"

3. If they still refuse, involve church leadership: "Tell it to the church."

4. As a last resort, treat them differently: "If they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector."

What's the Right Attitude When Confronting Sin?

Galatians 6:1-5 provides important guidance:

"Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

This passage teaches us to:

1. Restore gently, not harshly

2. Be careful not to fall into sin ourselves

3. Help carry burdens, but recognize each person must ultimately take responsibility

Why Is This So Important for Church Health?

Think of it like gravity. It's always easier to pull someone down than to lift someone up. When we allow disruptive or sinful behavior to continue unchecked in our church community, it can gradually pull others down too.

Consider the story of "Glenn"—a once-encouraging, positive church member who began associating with someone negative and critical. Over time, Glenn's own attitude soured. He stopped being the welcoming, encouraging presence he once was. By the time he passed away, many felt they had "lost Glenn" years before his actual death.

Had the church practiced proper discipline earlier, perhaps Glenn could have been restored to his former self, and the church could have avoided losing several families due to the negativity that spread.

Life Application

This week, consider these challenging questions:

1. Is there someone in your life who needs to be gently confronted about behavior that's harmful to themselves or the church community?

2. Conversely, is there an area in your own life where you need correction? Would you receive it humbly if someone approached you?

3. How can you help create a church atmosphere that feels like "heaven on earth"—a place of such joy, peace, and love that visitors say, "If this is what heaven will be like, I can't wait"?

Remember, church discipline isn't about judgment or superiority—it's about protecting the beautiful fellowship of believers that makes church a place where people can experience Christ's love. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to draw boundaries that protect both the individual and the community.

The goal is always restoration. As Paul reminds us, even when we must distance ourselves from someone, we should "not regard them as an enemy, but warn them as you would a fellow believer."

2nd Thessalonians 2: The Enemies Lie

Standing Firm Against Deception: Recognizing the Enemy's Lies

In a world filled with deception, how can we stand firm in our faith? The enemy is constantly working to pull us away from Christ with the same old lie he's been using since the Garden of Eden. Understanding this deception is crucial for every believer who wants to remain steadfast in their faith.

What is the greatest deception we face as Christians?

Paul warns in 2 Thessalonians 2:9-10 about "the coming of the lawless one" who "will use all sorts of displays of power through signs and wonders that serve the lie." This isn't just any lie—it's "the lie" that Satan has been telling since the beginning.

The enemy's deception is powerful. Jesus Himself warned in Matthew 24:24 that "false messiahs and false prophets will appear and perform great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect." This should give us pause. The deception will be so convincing that even devoted followers of Christ could potentially be led astray.

What is "the lie" that Satan tells?

When we examine Scripture, we see a consistent pattern in Satan's deception. From the Garden of Eden to Jesus' temptation in the wilderness, the enemy's core lie remains the same:

You can get what you want without God.

In Genesis, Satan told Eve she could gain wisdom without following God's instructions. To Jesus, he offered kingship without the cross. The lie always suggests there's a shortcut to what we desire—a way to achieve it without submitting to God's way.

This lie manifests in our lives when we think:

1. "I can find happiness my own way"

2. "I don't need to follow God's design for relationships"

3. "I can create my own purpose and meaning"

4. "I can achieve financial security through my own means"

How does God respond to those who believe the lie?

In 2 Thessalonians 2:11-12, Paul writes something troubling: "For this reason God sends them a powerful delusion so that they will believe the lie and so that all will be condemned who have not believed the truth but have delighted in wickedness."

This doesn't mean God actively deceives people. Rather, as Romans 1:28 explains, God "gives them over" to their chosen path. Like the father of the prodigal son who allowed his son to leave with his inheritance, God sometimes lets people experience the full consequences of rejecting Him.

God doesn't force Himself on anyone. He respects our free will, even when we use it to walk away from Him. But the door to return is always open through Jesus Christ, who is "pleased to give life to all who seek him" (John 5:21).

How can we stand firm against deception?

Paul gives clear instructions in 2 Thessalonians 2:13-15 on how to stand firm:

1. Remember you are loved by God - You are "loved by the Lord" and "chosen" by Him

2. Believe in the truth - The gospel is the truth that saves us

3. Hold fast to sound teaching - Cling to what you've been taught from God's Word

Those who are truly founded on Christ don't need new revelations or miraculous signs to validate their faith. They've already found everything they need in Jesus. When someone claims to have discovered a new truth or a different path, believers who are firmly rooted in Christ recognize that nothing needs to be added to what they already have in Him.

Why is Jesus the answer to every deception?

Jesus is "the way, the truth, and the life" (John 14:6). When we make Him the center of our lives, everything else comes into focus:

1. Want better relationships? Jesus teaches us how to love unconditionally.

2. Worried about your future? Jesus shows us how to prioritize and trust God.

3. Seeking purpose? Jesus gives our lives eternal significance.

Whatever you're looking for in life, start with Christ, and everything will come into proper perspective. The enemy will always try to convince you that you can find what you want apart from God, but it's the same old lie from the same old liar.

Life Application

The storms of life will come to everyone. We're either currently in a storm or preparing for the next one. How we live between storms determines how we'll stand when they arrive.

This week, examine your life for areas where you might be believing "the lie" that you can get what you want without following God's way:

1. What do you want most in life right now? Is it happiness, good relationships, financial stability, or purpose?

2. How are you trying to achieve it? Are you following God's instructions or looking for shortcuts?

3. Where do you turn for answers? When facing difficult questions, do you look to God's Word first, or do you seek worldly wisdom?

4. Are you delighting in things that don't honor God? Even "small" compromises can open the door to deception.

Make Jesus your firm foundation by spending time in His Word daily, surrounding yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life, and bringing your sin into the light through confession and accountability.

Remember: Everything you could possibly want, dream for, or imagine has already been given to you if you're in Christ Jesus. Stand firm on this truth, and no deception will be able to shake you.

Resurrection Sunday: Don't Settle for a Secondary Salvation!

Finding True Freedom: Looking Beyond Our Immediate Needs

Life has a way of creating gaps and leaving us longing for things we think will make everything better. Whether it's acceptance, financial security, better relationships, relief from struggles, or something as simple as the right pair of shoes, we often believe we know exactly what we need to fix our problems.

When What We Think We Need Isn't What We Really Need

Just like the religious leaders and crowds at Jesus' crucifixion, we can become so focused on what we think we need that we miss the bigger picture. The religious experts were looking for a conquering king to overthrow Rome, but they missed countless prophecies showing the Messiah would come to suffer and save in a much deeper way. Read through Psalm 22 and notice all the ways this points us to Jesus!

Why Do We Miss What's Most Important?

We often sacrifice long-term good for short-term gain. Like the religious leaders who were experts in scripture yet missed its true meaning, we can become blinded by our immediate desires and perceived needs. We look for a “secondary salvation” to be saved from something that isn’t the true issue.

Finding Freedom Through Proper Focus

True freedom comes when we shift our focus from our temporary problems to our relationship with Jesus. Whether dealing with:

1. Relationship struggles

2. Financial difficulties

3. Health issues

4. Future uncertainties

The key is remembering that these are temporary concerns compared to our eternal relationship with God.

Jesus' Promise About Our Needs

In Matthew 6:33, Jesus says "Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." When we prioritize our relationship with God, He promises to take care of our other needs.

Life Application

This week, take your biggest current need or concern and bring it before Jesus with this challenge:

1. Ask Jesus "What do you think my greatest need is right now?"

2. Give Him time to answer - don't rush to fill in the blank

3. Discuss with Christian friends and seek their prayer support

4. Keep asking until you gain His perspective on your situation

Questions to reflect on:

1. What do I spend the most time worrying about or praying for?

2. Could this concern be distracting me from a deeper spiritual need?

3. How might my perspective change if I truly trusted God to handle my temporary problems

4. What steps can I take to seek God's kingdom first this week?

Palm Sunday - The Triumphal Entry

Understanding True Salvation: Lessons from Jesus's Triumphal Entry

When Jesus entered Jerusalem on Palm Sunday, it marked a pivotal moment where the people's expectations met God's greater purpose. While the crowds welcomed Him as their earthly king, Jesus had a far more significant mission in mind.

What Were the People Expecting from Jesus?

The Jewish people had waited generations for their promised Messiah. They believed Jesus would:

1. Restore their kingdom and free them from Roman rule

2. Establish political power and autonomy

3. Fulfill God's covenant promise of giving them their land

4. Be their mighty warrior king

Why Did They Welcome Jesus with Such Celebration?

The triumphal entry was filled with symbolic meaning:

1. Riding on an unridden colt fulfilled Messianic prophecy

2. Entering on a donkey signified coming in peace

3. People laying down cloaks showed complete submission

4. Palm branches represented victory

5. Shouts of "Hosanna" were cries for salvation

What Was Jesus's True Mission?

While the people sought political salvation, Jesus came for something greater:

1. To be the perfect sacrificial lamb for all humanity

2. To establish an eternal kingdom, not just an earthly one

3. To offer spiritual salvation from sin and death

4. To reach not just Israel, but the entire world

How Do We Miss God's Greater Purpose Today?

Like the ancient Jews, we often:

1. Focus on temporary solutions over eternal ones

2. Get distracted by secondary issues

3. Seek physical comfort over spiritual transformation

4. Miss seeing people's deeper spiritual needs

Life Application

This week, consider:

1. What "secondary salvations" distract you from God's primary mission?

2. How can you refocus on sharing Jesus's message of true salvation?

3. Who in your life needs to hear about Jesus's love and saving grace?

Challenge yourself to:

1. Look at your city through Jesus's eyes

2. Care about what breaks His heart

3. Share the good news of salvation with someone this week

4. Focus on eternal impact over temporary solutions

Remember: While earthly concerns matter, our primary mission is sharing Christ's message of eternal salvation with a world that desperately needs Him.

You Asked For: Are There Different Severities of Sin?

Understanding God's Perspective on Sin and Life

Life through Jesus offers something far greater than what our old life of sin and death could provide. While we may sometimes feel pulled back toward old habits and desires, they ultimately leave us empty and unfulfilled compared to the joy and peace found in Christ.

Can God Create a Rock So Big He Can't Lift It?

This question attempts to create a paradox to disprove God's unlimited nature. However, the question itself is flawed because it tries to put limits on a limitless God. Scripture tells us that "with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26) and that His understanding has no limits (Psalm 147:5).

To illustrate the difference between a million and a billion, we talked about in terms we might understand. A million seconds works out to a little over 11 days. A billion seconds is….over 30 years! And a trillion seconds? It would take 1,000 generations to experience 1 trillion seconds. Our human minds struggle to comprehend true infinity - whether in terms of space, time, or power. The vastness of the universe, with its billions of galaxies, gives us just a glimpse of God's unlimited nature. He exists outside of our limited understanding of time and space. This perspective on God set’s up our next question.

Are There Different Levels of Sin?

From our human perspective, we often try to categorize sins as "worse" or "better." However, God's perspective is different. Romans 6:23 tells us "the wages of sin is death" - all sin leads to death and separation from God. While there may be different earthly consequences for various sins, God's primary concern is whether we are spiritually dead in sin or alive in Christ.

How Do We Receive New Life?

The path to life comes through:

1. Faith in Jesus Christ

2. Believing in His death and resurrection

3. Accepting His gift of righteousness

4. Being justified through faith

5. Experiencing baptism as a symbol of dying to sin and rising to new life

Life Application

This week, instead of comparing sins or trying to justify behavior, focus on this core question: Are you living in death or in life? Consider:

1. Do you truly believe Jesus loves you and offers new life?

2. Are you still finding satisfaction in things that lead to death?

3. What areas of your life need to be surrendered to experience more of Christ's life?

4. How can you pursue things that lead to life rather than death?

The challenge is to stop playing the comparison game with sin and instead embrace the new life Jesus offers - a life that finds no satisfaction in the empty promises of sin but finds complete fulfillment in Christ. We spent a lot of time in Romans this week. It’s so full of this language and helps us understand how we move from dead to sin to alive in Christ. Take some time this week to read Romans.

Presents or Presence - Week 1

What Do You Truly Want from God? Presence or Presents?

As we transition from Thanksgiving to the Christmas season, it's a perfect time to reflect on what we truly desire from God. This week, we kicked off a new sermon series titled "Presents or Presence," which challenges us to examine whether we seek the gifts God can give us or his very presence.

The Fillet Knife: A Lesson in Value

Pastor Jeff began with a story about a common Rapala fillet knife. While this knife is inexpensive and easily replaceable (you can pick one up at Scheels if you were wondering) the one he owns holds immense sentimental value because it was a gift from his grandfather. The knife represents something much greater. This story serves as a metaphor for our relationship with God. Do we just value the gifts he gives us, or do we cherish his presence in our lives?

The Israelites' Dilemma

In Exodus 33, God offers the Israelites the Promised Land but says he will not go with them due to their repeated disobedience. This was the land of milk and honey, whispered of around campfires for generations, the fulfillment of a divine covenant made with Abraham hundreds of years prior. Yet now they faced a profound choice: Would they accept this long-yearned-for inheritance without God's presence? This scenario challenges us to consider what we truly desire from God. Is it the blessings he can provide, or is it his presence that we seek?

Moses' Response: Choosing Presence Over Presents

Moses' response to God is clear and resolute: "If your presence does not go with us, do not send us from here" (Exodus 33:15). Moses understood that God's presence was more valuable than any earthly blessing. He preferred to stay in the desert with God rather than enter the Promised Land without Him. What about us? Again we consider what we truly desire from God. What would you have said? 

The Tent of Meeting: Knowing God

Exodus 33:7 says “Now Moses used to take a tent and pitch it outside the camp some distance away, calling it the “tent of meeting.” Anyone inquiring of the Lord would go to the tent of meeting outside the camp.” While anyone could go meet with God there, most Israelites stayed at their own tent entrances. There might have been any number of reasons for this hesitation: fear due to their disobedience, feeling unworthy, not seeing dramatic signs like the pillar of cloud, delegating spiritual responsibility to Moses, or being too preoccupied with dreams of future prosperity in Canaan. Any of these excuses sound familar? Maybe hit a little close to home? What keeps us from seeking God's presence today?

The New Covenant: God With Us

We are under a new covenant through Jesus Christ. Matthew 1:23 says Jesus will be called Emmanuel, meaning "God with us." We hear about that often around Christmas time…but think about what it means for us! Unlike the Israelites, we don't need to go to a special tent to be in God's presence. Through Jesus, we have direct access to God anytime, anywhere. This is the greatest gift we can receive—God's presence in our lives.

Application: Embrace God's Presence

As we reflect on this sermon, let's challenge ourselves to seek God's presence above all else. Here are a few questions to ponder this week:

1. **What do I truly desire from God?** Is it His blessings or His presence?

2. **How often do I seek God's presence in my daily life?** Am I content with just attending church, or do I strive to be in His presence continually?

3. **What distractions keep me from experiencing God's presence?** How can I overcome these distractions to deepen my relationship with Him?

Challenge for the Week

This week, make a conscious effort to spend time in God's presence. Whether through prayer, reading the Bible, or simply being still, prioritize your relationship with Him. Remember, the greatest gift God offers is not what He can give us, but Himself.

Conclusion

As we journey through this series, let's remember that God's presence is the ultimate gift. While His blessings are wonderful, they are meaningless without Him. May we, like Moses, choose God's presence over any earthly blessing and find true joy and peace in Him.

Stay tuned for the upcoming sermons in this series as we explore the good gifts God promises and how they are enriched by His presence. Come back and celebrate with us again next week!